rachylou
Warren Veteran
What would you do in my situation...
We are due to have our little boy in August and have recently moved in with my parents due to my mental health illness becoming too much as it was centered around the contamination of poison at the flat and really kicked my OCD up to a new level so disabaling that my husband had to stay off work to look after me.
Anyway we are now at my parents and hope that in a week or so my husband will be able to start back at work as I am coping a lot better being away from the flat.
My parents have very kindly given up their lounge for us and it has been converted in to our bedroom/living area and they have the dinning room as their living area now.
There is a box room in the house which used to be my old room when I was previously living at home when I was younger it is literally a box room, big enough for a single bed and a large wardrobe but that is about it.
At the moment the bunnies are living in the lounge with us and they are so happy there!! Jimby has been binkying and has really brightened up since moving, he never binkyed at the flat and I fear he may have been slipping in to a state of depression.
Our prediciment is...
We had planned on putting baby straight in his own room as the idea of having him in the lounge with us and the bunnies is probably not a good one due to possible allergies, we have a good baby monitor with a movement sensor pad so we thought this would be a safe option.
The reason we do not really want to put the bunnies up in the box room is becasue it is so small and would really oly be big enough for their cage and a small area which we feel would not be fair to them, plus they would not have constant interation which they are used to and thrieve on.
We saw the consultant today who has said that by the SID society it is recommended that baby stay in with Muma nd Dad for the first 6 months but it is up to us.
So my question to you is, what would you do?
We are due to have our little boy in August and have recently moved in with my parents due to my mental health illness becoming too much as it was centered around the contamination of poison at the flat and really kicked my OCD up to a new level so disabaling that my husband had to stay off work to look after me.
Anyway we are now at my parents and hope that in a week or so my husband will be able to start back at work as I am coping a lot better being away from the flat.
My parents have very kindly given up their lounge for us and it has been converted in to our bedroom/living area and they have the dinning room as their living area now.
There is a box room in the house which used to be my old room when I was previously living at home when I was younger it is literally a box room, big enough for a single bed and a large wardrobe but that is about it.
At the moment the bunnies are living in the lounge with us and they are so happy there!! Jimby has been binkying and has really brightened up since moving, he never binkyed at the flat and I fear he may have been slipping in to a state of depression.
Our prediciment is...
We had planned on putting baby straight in his own room as the idea of having him in the lounge with us and the bunnies is probably not a good one due to possible allergies, we have a good baby monitor with a movement sensor pad so we thought this would be a safe option.
The reason we do not really want to put the bunnies up in the box room is becasue it is so small and would really oly be big enough for their cage and a small area which we feel would not be fair to them, plus they would not have constant interation which they are used to and thrieve on.
We saw the consultant today who has said that by the SID society it is recommended that baby stay in with Muma nd Dad for the first 6 months but it is up to us.
So my question to you is, what would you do?