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little madam.....
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shell1805
Mama Doe
:lol: trust me i thought about it, my OH had no idea what had happened. he walks in to me balling my eye balls out holding bella and he thought she had died :shock:
she is now sitting in her house pulling at the door to come out but im too mad, little madam can have time out for tonight while i try to salvage what i can
she is now sitting in her house pulling at the door to come out but im too mad, little madam can have time out for tonight while i try to salvage what i can
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VickiP
Wise Old Thumper
:lol: trust me i thought about it, my OH had no idea what had happened. he walks in to me balling my eye balls out holding bella and he thought she had died :shock:
she is now sitting in her house pulling at the door to come out but im too mad, little madam can have time out for tonight
What an odd choice of title for your thread, it's really not your rabbits fault it's yours for not ensuring that things like that are not within chewing reach, she isn't capable of deciding what is important or not - don't blame her and punishing her is a pointless exercise, she won't understand.
xx-snowball-xx
Wise Old Thumper
:lol: trust me i thought about it, my OH had no idea what had happened. he walks in to me balling my eye balls out holding bella and he thought she had died :shock:
she is now sitting in her house pulling at the door to come out but im too mad, little madam can have time out for tonight
hmmm
i really don't think that punishing her and making her have "time out" for the night is fair
i hardly think that you can punish her for something, which, in your own words, was your fault
I agree, in fact I am always telling this to my OH when his things get chewed!! She is just being a rabbit, I understand that you are upset and you aren't really going to kill your rabbit but rabbits will always chew and dig
shell1805
Mama Doe
:roll: thanks for that obvious comment. i KNOW it wasnt her fault, i infact SAID it was my fault. however being upset is an emotion no one can control. anyone who knows me on here knows bella and jasper are my world, and i would never punish either of them. i am still working on my art and surely having her away while i do it is safer for her....
but as i already said...
thanks
xx-snowball-xx
Wise Old Thumper
do you really think i would punish an animal that i so obviously adore??
i apologise for my choice of words but i do not appriciate being pounced on x
nobody is pouncing on you
i apologise if you felt like i said something out of order.
i felt upset when i saw your post, because you seemed to be clearly mad at her. the words you used and the amount of
you peppered your posts with.then you said
now to me, that is punishing her. you can say leaving her in her cage isn't a punishment now. but reading it, from my point of view, it looks like you did it to punish her.im too mad, little madam can have time out for tonight
this was worrying as, with it being almost an hour since your original post, you should have calmed down by then.
sorry, i apologise for the way it made you feel. but i don't apologise for my post or my opinion.
Candiflare
Mama Doe
Guys, you are overreacting to this post.
Be generous in your interpretation.
Be generous in your interpretation.
VickiP
Wise Old Thumper
nobody is pouncing on you
i apologise if you felt like i said something out of order.
i felt upset when i saw your post, because you seemed to be clearly mad at her. the words you used and the amount of
then you said
now to me, that is punishing her. you can say leaving her in her cage isn't a punishment now. but reading it, from my point of view, it looks like you did it to punish her.
this was worrying as, with it being almost an hour since your original post, you should have calmed down by then.
sorry, i apologise for the way it made you feel. but i don't apologise for my post or my opinion.
I agree Snowball, i thought the same, it's not about pouncing on anyone, just showing concern for an innocent little rabbit who thought nothing more than she'd found a new chew toy and was probably having a lovely time demolishing it and then suddenly your crying and she's put away for time out -she's probably totally freaked out and believe me I'd be more grateful about the fact that she isn't poisoned by your own lack of care about leaving potentially toxic things in chewing reach!
shell1805
Mama Doe
your opinion is your opinion, which is fair enough. the way i worded it was obviously taken more seriously than intennded, it was more tongue in cheek than anything else. if i was gonna punish her would i say it on a sight full of rabbit lovers???
as for 'it was over an hour ago' seriously?? i didnt realise my emotions had a time limit.
im sorry if this comes across as me being over sensitive but my animals are my life and i would never do anything to hurt them
as for 'it was over an hour ago' seriously?? i didnt realise my emotions had a time limit.
im sorry if this comes across as me being over sensitive but my animals are my life and i would never do anything to hurt them
VickiP
Wise Old Thumper
your opinion is your opinion, which is fair enough. the way i worded it was obviously taken more seriously than intennded, it was more tongue in cheek than anything else. if i was gonna punish her would i say it on a sight full of rabbit lovers???
as for 'it was over an hour ago' seriously?? i didnt realise my emotions had a time limit.
im sorry if this comes across as me being over sensitive but my animals are my life and i would never do anything to hurt them
Thats good to hear, it's also important to ensure that when she is out there is nothing that is harmful to be chewed though, sorry if there is a mis-understanding - it did seem you were a bit angry with all the
hope you can forgive her, she really didn't mean it.:wave:
shell1805
Mama Doe
:shock: judgemental much??
bella is 100% fine, is not freaked out and is currently eating some treats i have given her.
i wasnt aware i was in company of people who have never made mistakes.
i cant believe a tongue in cheek post, could cause such people to become so self righteous.
:shock: im shocked if im honest
BattleKat
Wise Old Thumper
your opinion is your opinion, which is fair enough. the way i worded it was obviously taken more seriously than intennded, it was more tongue in cheek than anything else. if i was gonna punish her would i say it on a sight full of rabbit lovers???
as for 'it was over an hour ago' seriously?? i didnt realise my emotions had a time limit.
im sorry if this comes across as me being over sensitive but my animals are my life and i would never do anything to hurt them
things are just hard to read properly over the net sometimes. So long as you know you didn't mean any harm don't worry about what people have to say.
You being upset is just as natural as her tearing your artwork and if you need to put her away for a bit in order to calm down then that's fair enough.
shell1805
Mama Doe
thank you for your understanding..... i cant believe how this has gone from me being a bit peeved to all out 'war of words' (which im now sure that isnt acceptable terminology and will be used against me!!!
)
xx-snowball-xx
Wise Old Thumper
your opinion is your opinion, which is fair enough. the way i worded it was obviously taken more seriously than intennded, it was more tongue in cheek than anything else. if i was gonna punish her would i say it on a sight full of rabbit lovers???
as for 'it was over an hour ago' seriously?? i didnt realise my emotions had a time limit.
im sorry if this comes across as me being over sensitive but my animals are my life and i would never do anything to hurt them
sorry, didn't realise that it was meant to be a joke and that you weren't being serious. i really thought when i read it that you really were that mad at her.
and no, i didn't mean that your emotions had a time limit. just that usually, people calm down a heck of a lot within 40 minutes and you didn't seem to have calmed at all. in fact reading it, you seemed to get more angry.
that's just the way it came across
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