To be honest, I think most bunnies are not as keen on cuddles as we would like to be. Spenser only lets me cuddle him if he's ill! I've learnt to accept this, and have discovered that he does like being petted, but only if all four paws are on the ground! He also likes attention, and is noticeably more frisky in his run if he knows he has an audience. He's an outdoor bun, so I don't have the wallpaper problem. I've no experience of having a neutered rabbit, but I think I've read that it can take a few weeks for the hormones to settle.