There's my... ahem.... your girl. See, now THAT makes me miss her, but shes in the right place
Don't worry about him hurting her. Just leave them to it. He will invariably do that but he can't hurt her. He may not be trying to hurt her just get to her. She isn't bothered, and that's the important thing. If you are worried then put something there so he can't see her.
I hope you feel better soon. Bad hayfever day I reckon- or has been for me at least. I think I remember you saying you get that?