I'm really hoping the bonding will bring about some change in my head.
The dynamics in my group have changed for the better. (When Scarlett died, the dynamics all went topsy turvy), but now they're all okay.
Yes, finding Scarlett had an AWFUL effect on me.
For days - weeks I could not face to go into there (and I was looking after my neighbours guinea pigs too) so I had to get my Dad to go out and check if everyone was still alive (sounds really awful)
I still have to convince myself sometimes that one is NOT dead, and it's all in my head.
I have mini panics about one certain bunny, for example... "Benji, Benji, I just feel he's dead" and then I panic about it, and I have to pluck up the courage just to check on them, and then Benji will be bouncing around like a looneytune.
It's absolute craziness, the group isn't the same anymore. I LOVED my group of 5, Scarlett was so so so special, nothing is the same without her
Sarah Jane, you're right, hopefully the move will bring about some change, and atleast Scarlett will be laid to rest there in the garden with her friends (and some new ones!) :lol: