Miffy went really withdrawn when Claude died She was on her own for 2 weeks then i got Vinnie,obviously i lost them both last year
im regretting it now. im trying to pretend shes still here but its not working... i didnt think it would hurt this bad after preparing myself for so long... i know she was ready but i wasnt and i want her back
restless too, i usually go back to bed for a while after med time if im off work.. woke up 6.30 dead and realised no more med time, no more veg time no more hand feeding pellet time. no more tooth purring and no more grooms
Alvin tolerates me just about if i give him food, he glares at me suspiciously when i try to sit with him
how are you hun??
he wont let me comfort him
just went and sat on the bed with him and he ran through to the other room and stood there glaring at me
he wont let me comfort him
just went and sat on the bed with him and he ran through to the other room and stood there glaring at me
Try to give him time, and also give yourself time. He may be picking up on how wretched you are feeling.
Keep talking here if you need to.