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Wise Old Thumper
i dont know what to do
My specialist said that because of peanuts weak leg he ideally needs a shed + run combo as opposed to his hutch, and she said that when he was indoors she did gradually see his leg getting stronger but as soon as he went outside it declined again due to im having less space. He has a 6 x 2 x 2 which is fine, but he needs more. Mum said it was fine and we would sort it within the next few weeks.
Today my dad has decided that he doesnt want a shed in the garden as it will ruin it and look horrible. He then said "well whats the point in doing it because he doesnt seem to have a good outlook anyway" . That upset me, but then my mum said "well if the worst happens she's still going to need a shed because Jelly will pair with Domino and Pebbles as it was peanut that was the bully when they were a four so she would need a shed for that"
My dad still said no. So i said "well if i cant have a shed, they cant be a three, so ill need to get a friend for Jelly wont i?" he also said no.
So now i have the problem that I cant give peanut what he needs, and then if he doesnt come through the surgery i then cant give the others what they need, and Jelly will be alone as my dad says she couldnt have a new friend because im not here enough.
I know its all what ifs, but whichever scenario i cant do what i need to because my dad wont let me
If peanut survives his op - he cant have what he needs
and if he doesnt - then i cant make a trio and jelly will be alone
My specialist said that because of peanuts weak leg he ideally needs a shed + run combo as opposed to his hutch, and she said that when he was indoors she did gradually see his leg getting stronger but as soon as he went outside it declined again due to im having less space. He has a 6 x 2 x 2 which is fine, but he needs more. Mum said it was fine and we would sort it within the next few weeks.
Today my dad has decided that he doesnt want a shed in the garden as it will ruin it and look horrible. He then said "well whats the point in doing it because he doesnt seem to have a good outlook anyway" . That upset me, but then my mum said "well if the worst happens she's still going to need a shed because Jelly will pair with Domino and Pebbles as it was peanut that was the bully when they were a four so she would need a shed for that"
My dad still said no. So i said "well if i cant have a shed, they cant be a three, so ill need to get a friend for Jelly wont i?" he also said no.
So now i have the problem that I cant give peanut what he needs, and then if he doesnt come through the surgery i then cant give the others what they need, and Jelly will be alone as my dad says she couldnt have a new friend because im not here enough.
I know its all what ifs, but whichever scenario i cant do what i need to because my dad wont let me
If peanut survives his op - he cant have what he needs
and if he doesnt - then i cant make a trio and jelly will be alone