purplebumble
Warren Veteran
i should be sooo pleased and i am belive you me i am..but im now at apoint where i have to make a descision one way or the other and im torn.
My widower bun Bertie and my recently widowed bun Bif (who were once hubby and wifey) have rebonded back together in grief. I was soo pleased for them both to have each other for comfort.
ive already seen a wifey for bertie..before bandit passed away...and ive alread taken on an injured abandoned little bun to live upstairs.
BUT i dont know if my plan to then bond them both to the frenchie wifey id ofund and another little male bun was a good idea/is a good idea.
i thought itd be easy and best for them to make it a foursome again..but last few days ive had my doubts
they are inseperable..bif will not sleep away from him at all and if she is eating etc when he wakes up he lamsot panics and goes looking for her..which sounds very sweet but im worried sick. what happens if i leave it at just them and one dies soon? the other one wont make it...and if add more buns..the stress etc of the bonding and new buns will make life for them all hard for a long time until they bond.if they bond as a foursome.
I have had the fourway bonding before and i know its hard with a bossy little doe like bif and ahuge bossy doe like willow was..but not all buns are same etc.
Somebody please please advise me here..my heart is telling me to not go head and find another two buns after all..to let them live out their lifes togehter until one passes away......and then decide then what to do.
my heads telling me that bif made bertie very stressed last time relying on him so much..but this time around it seems the feeling is mutal:shock: but i should go ahead an enforce group bonding....always equal figures.
now all i want is what is best for them both and i dont know what to do
My widower bun Bertie and my recently widowed bun Bif (who were once hubby and wifey) have rebonded back together in grief. I was soo pleased for them both to have each other for comfort.
ive already seen a wifey for bertie..before bandit passed away...and ive alread taken on an injured abandoned little bun to live upstairs.
BUT i dont know if my plan to then bond them both to the frenchie wifey id ofund and another little male bun was a good idea/is a good idea.
i thought itd be easy and best for them to make it a foursome again..but last few days ive had my doubts
they are inseperable..bif will not sleep away from him at all and if she is eating etc when he wakes up he lamsot panics and goes looking for her..which sounds very sweet but im worried sick. what happens if i leave it at just them and one dies soon? the other one wont make it...and if add more buns..the stress etc of the bonding and new buns will make life for them all hard for a long time until they bond.if they bond as a foursome.
I have had the fourway bonding before and i know its hard with a bossy little doe like bif and ahuge bossy doe like willow was..but not all buns are same etc.
Somebody please please advise me here..my heart is telling me to not go head and find another two buns after all..to let them live out their lifes togehter until one passes away......and then decide then what to do.
my heads telling me that bif made bertie very stressed last time relying on him so much..but this time around it seems the feeling is mutal:shock: but i should go ahead an enforce group bonding....always equal figures.
now all i want is what is best for them both and i dont know what to do