ChloeLawless
Mama Doe
Hopefuly some of you can help me nicely and give me some advice...i have been umming and arrring on weather to post this on here all day and I dont know what else to do....
here goes..
As some of you know, Lily and Paddy have gone away for a week to be bonded.
So far its been unsucessful...Paddy is being very very dominant over Lily and theyve had to be seperated numurous amounts of times due to fighting. (proper fighting not scuffles)
Lily has obvious problems in the past..after her major surgery and problems with her gut so I am very worried about her going through a lot of stress from a troublesome bond, as it could really cause her some trouble.
Jo (bunnery) who is doing the bond thinks that if theres no imrpovement by friday then it will be a lot harder or even impossible for them to get a long...and because I am worrying about lily I am wondering weather to continue anymore after the weekend....even though I know it does take longer than a week..I thought we'd see a small amount of progress yet theres none..just agression.
The trouble is, if this dosent work out I may have to rehome Paddy as I cant keep two buns seperate in the house, as I have limited space.
This is the part I am worried about talking about as I dont want people thinking I can't be bothered, or that I dont like Paddy etc. As I do...I got him through his EC scare and I like to think I have made a difference to him. I just HAVE to think of Lilys troubles too..and I have had her since she was 8 weeks old.
I just need some advice...as I am so worried and upset over it all.
here goes..
As some of you know, Lily and Paddy have gone away for a week to be bonded.
So far its been unsucessful...Paddy is being very very dominant over Lily and theyve had to be seperated numurous amounts of times due to fighting. (proper fighting not scuffles)
Lily has obvious problems in the past..after her major surgery and problems with her gut so I am very worried about her going through a lot of stress from a troublesome bond, as it could really cause her some trouble.
Jo (bunnery) who is doing the bond thinks that if theres no imrpovement by friday then it will be a lot harder or even impossible for them to get a long...and because I am worrying about lily I am wondering weather to continue anymore after the weekend....even though I know it does take longer than a week..I thought we'd see a small amount of progress yet theres none..just agression.
The trouble is, if this dosent work out I may have to rehome Paddy as I cant keep two buns seperate in the house, as I have limited space.
This is the part I am worried about talking about as I dont want people thinking I can't be bothered, or that I dont like Paddy etc. As I do...I got him through his EC scare and I like to think I have made a difference to him. I just HAVE to think of Lilys troubles too..and I have had her since she was 8 weeks old.
I just need some advice...as I am so worried and upset over it all.