When bonded buns groom one another, who is dominant - the groomer, or the groomee?
For example, Gladys and Nigel are newly bonded and he pulled loads of her fur, but now he grooms her head and ears very attentively. So is he dominant or is she?
My other pair, Dougal and Doris- Dougal presents his head on the floor under her chin for her to groom, the same as he does to me when I open the hutch door. Who's in charge there?
I'm so confused! :roll:
For example, Gladys and Nigel are newly bonded and he pulled loads of her fur, but now he grooms her head and ears very attentively. So is he dominant or is she?
My other pair, Dougal and Doris- Dougal presents his head on the floor under her chin for her to groom, the same as he does to me when I open the hutch door. Who's in charge there?
I'm so confused! :roll: